The Secret To Creating A Deep Connection And Lasting Intimacy With Your Wife…

Has your wife ever complained that she doesn’t feel close to you?

Has your wife ever complained that you feel to distant to her…even though you’re physically present?

Do you ever wish that you could connect with your wife better than anyone she’s ever connected with?

Then read this Wife Magnet Secret…

Wife Magnet Secret #6: Getting CLOSE.

Now that you’ve built your Respectability through Wife Magnet Secret #4, Masculine Development…

And you’ve injected Pleasure into your wife’s life through Wife Magnet Secret #5, 6-Point Pleasuring…

You should’ve built enough desire in your wife that she wants to get closer to you.

Now that you’ve focused on you as a man…

And you’ve focused on her as a woman…

You can focus on the two of you as a couple.  And you can focus on building Intimacy between you.

This is the sort of stuff that the marriage and relationship advice out there focuses on.  But now you’re actually ready for it, because now she actually wants to get closer to you.

Warning!

If you haven’t yet established the other Wife Magnet Secrets in your life, so that your wife wants to get closer to you, then do not move on to this secret yet, and do not waste your time with most of the marriage and relationship advice out there.

Also, to help you save even more time, I’ve systematized how to build Intimacy through 5 simple points:

C onnection

L ightheartedness

O penness

S haring

E xpectations

1. Connection.

There are many ways to achieve connection, by recognizing her emotional cues, i.e. her bids for connection.  You can use your knowledge of Feminese, which you acquired in Wife Magnet Secret #2, to recognize which emotional need your wife is trying to get met when she makes a bid for connection.

But one of the best ways to achieve connection is to simply avoid the Connection Killers: Criticism, Defensiveness, Contempt, and Stonewalling.

2. Lightheartedness.

Keep things light.  Play games with your wife.  Be silly with her.  Don’t try to be too cool and suave.  As one of my teachers says, “Whatever was fun in 3rd grade…is fun now.”  One of my best “tricks” for this one is thumb-wrestling.  Do it!

3. Openness.

Now that you’ve got Masculine Development in place, you can relax and open up to your wife.  This is the similar to the “vulnerability” that all the chick-guides talk about.  But now it’s not a weakness, but a strength.  Let your wife see sides of you that you might not care to let outsiders see.  You don’t have to put an act of being strong and manly, because now you already are strong and manly.  Let your guard down.

4. Sharing.

The more you and your wife share, the closer she will feel to you.  Share what?  Two main things: commonalities and experiences.  Find things you have in common and bring them to the surface.  Make inside jokes about them.  If you grew up in a similar context, make references to it.

And share experiences.  The more experiences you share in the less time, the better.  And make reference to those shared experiences.  Have inside references to them.  The more that you share between just the two of you, to the exclusion of the rest of the world, the more your Intimacy builds.

5. Expectations.

Finally, expectations.  Be aware of your wife’s expectations from your marriage.  Get a good read on them.  And be aware of the expectations that you set.  And make sure to meet the expectations that have been set.  And then, of course, exceed expectations.  Because achieving anything less than her expectations is by definition…disappointment.  And disappointment will shatter Intimacy.

How To Deepen Your Getting CLOSE…

I could spend a lot more time on practical tips for achieving each of point of Getting CLOSE, but I’ll save that for my more detailed programs.

In my Wife Magnet KickStart program, for example, I go into more detail about *how* to achieve Connection, Lightheartedness, Openness, Sharing, and meeting Expectations.

I wrote a more detailed page elsewhere about how you can achieve that Getting CLOSE and become the intimacy-building man your wife finds irresistible.  Make sure you read all the way down for something very special, where I reveal the quickest way to achieving Wife Magnet Secret #6 and get the marriage transformation you’re looking for:

Click Here To Start Applying Wife Magnet Secret #6.

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The Secret To Pleasuring Your Wife Physically And Emotionally–So She’ll Desire You More And More…

Do you ever wish your wife desired you more?

Do you ever wish you knew how to better pleasure your wife?

Then read this Wife Magnet Secret…

Wife Magnet Secret #5: 6-Point Pleasuring.

If you don’t know how to pleasure your wife, then you’re missing that essential pull that a magnet has to have.

Do you know how to pleasure your wife?  What should you focus on to pleasure your wife?

Well, I’ve found that there are six points you need to focus on…

They are the 5 senses + her mind (or her heart, i.e. her emotion).  So give your wife sensory pleasure and emotional pleasure.

We learned a lot about her emotions in Wife Magnet Secret #2, Feminese, so I won’t go into emotion here.  (Though in my KickStart program, I address emotion further when addressing 6-Point Pleasuring.)

As for sensory pleasure, make sure to pleasure her 5 senses:

1. Sight.

Always look your best for your wife.  Don’t look great when you go out and then look terrible when you’re at home.  Take care of your body and your appearance.

Do you have to be a GQ model?  No, not at all.  Do you have to be naturally good-looking?  No, not at all.  In fact, even though I’m mentioning sight first, it’s probably the least important of the 5 senses.

As one of my teachers taught me, all it takes to pleasure a woman’s sense of sight is two things: 1) good grooming, and 2) having “a look.”  Simple, isn’t it?

Be well-groomed.  Cut your nails.  Comb your hair.  Make sure your facial hair is well-maintained.  Remove nose hair and ear hair if you have to.  Groom body hair.  Just pay attention to your grooming.  Your wife notices this stuff, so you’d better, too.  And dress well…incluing at home.

Have “a look.”  Have some style to your style.  Don’t dress plain and boring.  Dress with some flavour, even at home.

2. Hearing.

Pleasure your wife’s sense of hearing, especially with your voice.  Sound like a man.  Work on your voice, its depth, your speed of speech, and so on.  Learn how to whisper to your wife.  If you have a great singing voice, all the better.

3. Touch.

Learn how to touch your wife.  Learn which parts of her body are more sensitive.  Know when and how to touch her softly.  Know when and how to touch her firmly.

4. Taste.

You can have a lot of fun with your wife’s sense of taste.  Feed your wife.  Treat to tastes she enjoys.  Get creative with what sweet tastes you put in her mouth.

5. Smell.

Smell can be a game-changer.  If you have almost everything right, but you have anything wrong with your breath or your body odour, you can crush any Magnetism you’ve built.

I’ll just quickly tell you the spots that you should focus attention on that are often neglected: mouth (i.e. breath), underarms, feet, private parts (one that’s often neglected despite the amount of sweat and bacteria that often collect there), and hair.

As for your mouth, if you think that brushing your teeth is enough, you may have to think again.  Most breath doesn’t actually come from on the teeth; it comes from in between the teeth and from on the tongue.  So use a flosser, and use a tongue cleaner.

As for body odour, use good-smelling, long-lasting deodorant.  And feel free to use it on parts of your body other than just under your arms.  A good deodorant can make a huge difference.  Keep an extra stick in your bag for those hot days.

I could spend a lot more time on practical tips for smelling great, but I’ll save that for my more detailed programs.

In my Wife Magnet KickStart program, I go into a lot more detail about *how* to pleasure your wife: practical tips on how to pleasure her emotions and how to pleasure her senses.  I may even reveal things like the best deodorants and oral hygiene products I’ve found after lots of testing.

I wrote a more detailed page elsewhere about how you can achieve that 6-Point Pleasuring and become the sensual, pleasurable man your wife finds irresistible.  Make sure you read all the way down for something very special, where I reveal the quickest way to achieving Wife Magnet Secret #5 and get the marriage transformation you’re looking for:

Click Here To Start Applying Wife Magnet Secret #5.

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The Secret To Commanding Your Wife’s Respect, Wearing The Pants, And Being The Leader…

Do you ever feel that your wife doesn’t show you the respect you deserve?

Do you ever feel as if your wife is “man of the house?”

Well, get this Wife Magnet Secret in place, and that’ll never be the case again…

Wife Magnet Secret #4: Masculine Development.

In this politically-correct world of ours, this secret is sure to ruffle a few feathers.  Oh, well…get over it!  Being Magnetic isn’t always politically correct.

Being politically correct often means being what some might call a “nice guy.”  Ever heard the expression, “Nice guys finish last?”  I’m sure you have.

Right about now, you’re probably thinking, “Is this Jemal guy gonna tell me to be a jerk?!”

Nope.  Not at all.  Quite the contrary.

Here’s the thing: it’s not “nice guys” vs. “jerks.”  It’s actually “manly guys” vs. “chumps.”  Which one do you think is more Magnetic?  More irresistible to his wife?  The manly guy or the chump?

A woman may like a guy that’s not manly.  She may even be best friends with you if you’re “Charlie Chump.”  But rarely will she be magnetically attracted to, madly in love with, all googoo-gaga and a pile of jelly over a man she doesn’t find manly.

So Wife Magnet Secret #4, Masculine Development, is all about becoming more manly.  In Wife Magnet Secret #2, Feminese, you learned how to get in touch with your wife’s feminine side.  In Wife Magnet Secret #4, you learn how to get in touch with your masculine side.

Wife Magnet Secret #4 is all about you, as a man.  This secret is all about you.

Develop your masculine and your wife will naturally have more respect for you.  She won’t be able to show you disrespect, because she won’t be able to feel anything but respect for you.

Remember from Wife Magnet Secret #1, Taking Charge, that your wife’s behaviour is merely a response to how you are.  And remember from Wife Magnet Secret #2, Feminese, that it’s all about emotion. 

And her respect for you is an emotional response.  It’s a re-action.  So you have control over it.  So make her feel respect for you by becoming more respectable through Masculine Development.

How many guys have I seen insist and demand that their wives respect them!  But they don’t command respect.

Write this down:

“A man only *demands* respect when he doesn’t *command* respect.”

So How Do You Become More Manly And Command Your Wife’s Respet?

There are several elements to Masculine Development.  They include the following:

• Direction – There’s no comparison between a man that has direction in his life and a man that doesn’t
• Strength – Physical and personal
• Authority – In your life and in your marriage
• Control – Self-control, financial control, life control, frame control, and situational control

And in my Wife Magnet KickStart program, I go into detail about *how* to develop your masculine: how to discover your life purpose and get more direction in your life, how to develop your personal strength, how to become an authority in your life and with your wife, how to achieve all kinds of control in your life–some of  which you’ve probably never even heard of before.

I wrote a more detailed page elsewhere about how you can achieve that Masculine Development and become the manly, respectable man your wife is aching for.  Make sure you read all the way down for something very special, where I reveal the quickest way to achieving Wife Magnet Secret #4 and get the marriage transformation you’re looking for:

Click Here To Start Applying Wife Magnet Secret #4.

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The Secret To Keeping Your Wife’s Interest, Having Her Adore You And Want To Do Anything For You…

If there was one secret that can have the biggest impact on your marriage, this is the one.

Get this handled and you get at least 80-90% of all your issues handled.

Separation…Infidelity…Sexless Marriage…Nagging…Fighting…

This one secret is the biggest secret I’ve ever seen to completely transforming your marriage…

Wife Magnet Secret #3: Magnetic Attraction.

What is magnetic attraction?  Is it physical attraction?  No.

When I say magnetism, I mean emotional attraction. Emotional attraction.

If you know how to create emotional attraction in your wife, she’ll do just about anything to please you. And she’ll radiate like a girl that just fell in love. Because that’s exactly what’ll be happening to her.

And when you have a wife like that, 90% of the rest just falls into place. Like magic.

You’ve seen in Wife Magnet Secret #2, Feminese, that emotions are the most powerful driving force for a woman.  If you tap the right emotions, you will get your wife to adore you more than you ever imagined.  And when she adores you to that extent, she will focus all her attention on making you happy.  Make sense?

Now, I want you to imagine a magnet.  Okay, now imagine a spoon, or anything with iron, near that magnet.  If you hold the spoon just the right Distance from the magnet, you’ll find the spoon almost trembling out of longing to draw nearer to that magnet.  Are you getting the image?

For that magnetic tension to occur, you’ll find 3 things have to be present.  I call these the Foundations of Magnetism.

They are:
1) Pull
2) Distance
3) Closeness.

Foundation 1: Pull.  If that magnet has no inherent Pull, it simply can’t create that magnetic tension.  There wouldn’t be anything magnetic about it; it’d just be like a piece of metal, not a magnet.

But here’s the interesting part: Pull alone isn’t enough.  It is definitely a powerful factor, but Foundations 2 & 3 also need to be present.

Foundation 2: Distance.  Distance is perhaps the most counterintuitive of the Foundations, and the one least addressed.  And it is the biggest problem for many guys in creating and maintaining magnetic attraction with their wife.

Picture that magnet and spoon again.  If you let the spoon get so close to the magnet that it actually “WHAM!” hits the magnet and is stuck to it, where is the magnetic tension?  Right, it’s gone.

(Yet how often does the marriage advice out there teach us husbands that the point of marriage is eliminate all Distance and “become as one,” or whatever other advice we hear.)

So you see now that both Pull and Distance are essential to magnetism, but don’t forget that you also have to have Closeness.

If you put that spoon too far from the magnet, will the magnet have any effect on the spoon?  No, it won’t.  That’s right.  No matter how strong the magnet’s Pull, if the spoon is too far, or even not in the magnet’s range to begin with, the magnet won’t be able to attract it.

So, simply put, be that magnet!  That’s all you have to do, man.

Be That Magnet!

In my Wife Magnet KickStart program, I go into detail about *how* you can become that magnet–how to translate that Pull, Distance, and Closeness into real Magnetic Attraction in your wife toward you.

I wrote a more detailed page elsewhere about how you can achieve that Magnetic Attraction and translate Magnetism into your wife’s adoring you and doing anything for you.  Make sure you read all the way down for something very special, where I reveal the quickest way to achieving Wife Magnet Secret #3 and get the marriage transformation you’re looking for:

Click Here To Start Applying Wife Magnet Secret #3.

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The Secret To Understanding Your Wife, And Getting In Touch With Her Feminine Side…

One of my students once said, “I wish my wife came with a user’s manual.”

Ever wished you could make more sense of women–especially your wife?

Guess what.  You can.

By applying Wife Magnet Secret #2: Feminese.

If you’ve ever tried to “reason” with your wife…

If you’ve ever argued with your wife…

If you’ve ever tried to convince your wife of something through logical arguments or through ethical arguments…

If you’ve ever told your wife she “should” do such-and-such a thing…

You need to…

STOP! 

Just stop.

Stop arguing with your wife.  Stop trying to convince her of anything.  Stop “shoulding” all over her.  Stop relating to her in terms of logic or ethic.

Rather, relate to her in terms of emotion, and understand her language: Feminese.

“Feminese” is what I call the language of emotion.

Women are emotional creatures, and you have to relate to them in terms of emotion.  Anything else will leave both of you banging your heads against the wall in frustration.  Been there?

Now I’m not saying to “get in touch with your feminine side,” as so much of the marriage advice out there will tell you.  (I don’t want you to become feminine.  In fact, I want you to become more masculine, as you’ll see in Wife Magnet Secret #4.)  I’m saying get in touch with her feminine side.  Not yours.

You already learned in Wife Magnet Secret #1 to treat everything your wife does as a reaction to you.  Now you need to learn that it’s an emotional reaction.  So becoming fluent in Feminese means interpreting everything from your wife as an emotional reaction, as being driven by emotion…as an attempt to fulfill an emotional need.

So what are a woman’s emotional needs that drive her, anyway?  (Note that men are also driven by emotional needs, but I’m focusing on women here.)  In Wife Magnet, I’ve summarized a woman’s core emotional needs with the accronym: SECS.

1. Safety
2. Emotion
3. Connection
4. Significance

You need to become fluent in Feminese and understand how to read her SECSual needs, i.e. her emotional needs, and then respond accordingly to meet them.

As I say in The Magnet Creed:

How To Read–And Meet–Your Wife’s Emotional Needs…

In my Wife Magnet programs, such as the Wife Magnet KickStart program, I teach you how to read which of the 4 SECSual needs is driving your wife.  I also teach you how to respond accordingly.

I wrote a more detailed page elsewhere about how you can become fluent in “Feminese” and translate your wife’s SECSual needs into a happier her and a more irresistible you.  Make sure you read all the way down for something very special, where I reveal the quickest way to achieving Wife Magnet Secret #2 and get the marriage transformation you’re looking for:

Click Here To Start Applying Wife Magnet Secret #2.

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The Secret To Single-Handedly Transforming Your Marriage–Even Without Your Wife’s Help…

How often do you receive marriage advice that “it takes two” to make a marriage work?

Well, what if your wife just isn’t working at your marriage?  Is there still something you can do?

Absolutely.

You can apply Wife Magnet Secret #1: Taking Charge.

Taking charge of your marriage–and you should be doing this in every aspect of your life–means taking full, 100% responsibility for your marriage.  What does that mean?

It means that you treat everything in your marriage as a reaction to you.  Did you get that?  Everything that happens in your marriage, everything that your wife does, is a re-action, a response to how you are.

And what that means is…

If You Change How Are…Everything Around You–Including Your Wife–Will Change How It Responds To You

So step up and start making some changes.  Stop being a suck and blaming your marriage on your wife.  And I don’t mean to stop putting 100% of the responsibility on her; I mean stop even putting 50% of the responsibility on her.  Stop even putting 20% responsibility on her.

Rather…take 100% charge of your marriage, and ask always yourself, “If my wife is reacting to me in such-and-such a way, what did I do to bring about that reaction?  And what can I do change?”

At this point, you might be saying to yourself, “That’s just dumb.  Of course I’m not 100% responsible for our marriage.  I’m not the only person here.  I’m not married to myself.  I’ve already tried everything, and my wife is the problem…”

Guess what: I’ve done that, too.  Guess what, that attitude doesn’t work.  I’m not stupid, and neither are you.  We both know that there are two people in your marriage.  You’re not married to yourself.  So does your wife play a role in how your marriage turns out?  Of course.  But I guarantee you it’s way smaller than you think.  Maybe 5-10%.

So just act as if your marriage is 100% in your hands, you’ll see wonders.  Just act as if.  It works magic.

Your wife will naturally follow your lead if you change how you are.  She will respond to you differently.  I guarantee it.

The more you Take Charge of your marriage, the more power you’ll have to make it the marriage you want.

As I say in The Magnet Creed:

At this point, you might be asking,

“Okay, but how exactly do I change?  And what do I change?  And what do I change to?”

Well, as you can see, I’ve already given you a tonne in this post, and it’s already getting long.

So I decided to write a lengthier page elsewhere.  Make sure you read all the way down for something very special, where I reveal the quickest way have those questions answered and the quickest to apply Wife Magnet Secret #1 and get the transformation you’re looking for:

Click Here To Start Applying Wife Magnet Secret #1.

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