The Secret To Creating A Deep Connection And Lasting Intimacy With Your Wife…
Has your wife ever complained that she doesn’t feel close to you?
Has your wife ever complained that you feel to distant to her…even though you’re physically present?
Do you ever wish that you could connect with your wife better than anyone she’s ever connected with?
Then read this Wife Magnet Secret…
Wife Magnet Secret #6: Getting CLOSE.
Now that you’ve built your Respectability through Wife Magnet Secret #4, Masculine Development…
And you’ve injected Pleasure into your wife’s life through Wife Magnet Secret #5, 6-Point Pleasuring…
You should’ve built enough desire in your wife that she wants to get closer to you.
Now that you’ve focused on you as a man…
And you’ve focused on her as a woman…
You can focus on the two of you as a couple. And you can focus on building Intimacy between you.
This is the sort of stuff that the marriage and relationship advice out there focuses on. But now you’re actually ready for it, because now she actually wants to get closer to you.
If you haven’t yet established the other Wife Magnet Secrets in your life, so that your wife wants to get closer to you, then do not move on to this secret yet, and do not waste your time with most of the marriage and relationship advice out there.
Also, to help you save even more time, I’ve systematized how to build Intimacy through 5 simple points:
There are many ways to achieve connection, by recognizing her emotional cues, i.e. her bids for connection. You can use your knowledge of Feminese, which you acquired in Wife Magnet Secret #2, to recognize which emotional need your wife is trying to get met when she makes a bid for connection.
But one of the best ways to achieve connection is to simply avoid the Connection Killers: Criticism, Defensiveness, Contempt, and Stonewalling.
Keep things light. Play games with your wife. Be silly with her. Don’t try to be too cool and suave. As one of my teachers says, “Whatever was fun in 3rd grade…is fun now.” One of my best “tricks” for this one is thumb-wrestling. Do it!
Now that you’ve got Masculine Development in place, you can relax and open up to your wife. This is the similar to the “vulnerability” that all the chick-guides talk about. But now it’s not a weakness, but a strength. Let your wife see sides of you that you might not care to let outsiders see. You don’t have to put an act of being strong and manly, because now you already are strong and manly. Let your guard down.
The more you and your wife share, the closer she will feel to you. Share what? Two main things: commonalities and experiences. Find things you have in common and bring them to the surface. Make inside jokes about them. If you grew up in a similar context, make references to it.
And share experiences. The more experiences you share in the less time, the better. And make reference to those shared experiences. Have inside references to them. The more that you share between just the two of you, to the exclusion of the rest of the world, the more your Intimacy builds.
Finally, expectations. Be aware of your wife’s expectations from your marriage. Get a good read on them. And be aware of the expectations that you set. And make sure to meet the expectations that have been set. And then, of course, exceed expectations. Because achieving anything less than her expectations is by definition…disappointment. And disappointment will shatter Intimacy.61) And Secret 6, now onto it, 62) Is getting CLOSE™ and intimate. 63) Without it, she will feel alone… 64) Even when you are at home. 65) She’ll say, “You don’t connect with me.” 66) And Joe the Jerk™ expect to be. 67) And even if you aren’t mean, 68) To her too distant you will seem. 69) But first apply the other five, 70) For Secret 6 to really thrive.
How To Deepen Your Getting CLOSE…
I could spend a lot more time on practical tips for achieving each of point of Getting CLOSE, but I’ll save that for my more detailed programs.
In my Wife Magnet KickStart program, for example, I go into more detail about *how* to achieve Connection, Lightheartedness, Openness, Sharing, and meeting Expectations.
I wrote a more detailed page elsewhere about how you can achieve that Getting CLOSE and become the intimacy-building man your wife finds irresistible. Make sure you read all the way down for something very special, where I reveal the quickest way to achieving Wife Magnet Secret #6 and get the marriage transformation you’re looking for: